February 12 is the birthday of Abraham Lincoln - to my mind, the greatest US President ever. Everytime I faced a moral dilemma, a leadership puzzle, a question of integrity or character, of what can be a wisecrack that is sensible but full of goodwill, of wording phrases that are without malice towards all - it has to be Lincoln. My first tryst with reading started in school reading Lincoln's boyhood days; then my dad asked me to read a biography of Abe by Lord Charnwood, then followed more books about Lincoln by Carl Sandberg, Dale Carnegie etc.
During my early career days, I used to go to the American Research Centre for 8 rows of books on Lincoln - containing his speeches, writings, letters and anecodotes that always stir you. It set me on a lifelong love-affair with an acutely honest President and a man of Mt.Everest character almost of biblical proportions. Folks in this part of the world will make Gandhi the apostle of truth and peace but universally Lincoln inspires all. I agree with Christian Science Monitor's article why President's Day should be celebrated on Abe's birthday and not Washington's birthday. Incidentally, America still publishes tomes and tomes on Lincoln everyday and professionals churn out books giving newer monikers to Lincoln that make him current and impossible man who dealt with so many crises in one lifetime.
Its surprising the President who kept the nation together doesn't have a holiday in his honour - not that he would have minded. What are the five things that I recommend for anybody who wants to know about Llincoln :
1. Lincoln the Unknown - by Dale Carnegie (the best biography secretly written by Dale Carnegie before writing any of the books he became famous for)
2. Lincoln's letter to the School Headmaster about teaching his son (makes you cry in joy and wisdom everytime you read it). I am tempted to reproduce this letter at the end of this post. Read it as intently as you would have read Rudyard Kipling's "If".
3. The Boyhood Days of Lincoln. (If you get it read it for what an inspired boyhood and youth Abe had - a heady mixture of hardwork, persistence and application).
4. Lincoln on Leadership by Donald T Philip. (A colleague of mine who heard of that has made it mandatory reading at GE - where he heads a big division).
5. Any book which captures the witty anecdotes and/or speeches of Lincoln. I think Lincoln has got it after Shakespeare right - the cadence and the beauty, the brevity and the wit. ("A House divided against itself cannot stand").
I always think the generation which grows up on reading about Lincoln anywhere in the world will have an unbeatable advantage over lot of things in life that a generation lost on him. Born this day in 1809, Lincoln is forever. And oh by the way, here is the much-treasured letter which has to be enshrined likewise:
Respected Teacher,
My son will have to learn I know that all men are not just, all men are not true. But teach him also that for ever scoundrel there is a hero; that for every selfish politician, there is a dedicated leader. Teach him that for every enemy there is a friend.
It will take time, I know; but teach him, if you can, that a dollar earned is far more valuable than five found.
Teach him to learn to lose and also to enjoy winning.
Steer him away from envy, if you can.
Teach him the secret of quite laughter. Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest to tick.
Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books.. but also give him quiet time to ponder over the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on a green hill –side.
In school teach him it is far more honourable to fail than to cheat.
Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if every one tells him they are wrong.
Teach him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with the tough.
Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when every one is getting on the bandwagon.
Teach him to listen to all men but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.
Teach him, if you can, how to laugh when he is sad. Teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness.
Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders; but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul.
Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob… and to stand and fight if he thinks he’s right.
Treat him gently; but do not cuddle him because only the test of fire makes fine steel.
Let him have the courage to be impatient, let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind.
This is a big order; but see what you can do. He is such a fine little fellow, my son.
During my early career days, I used to go to the American Research Centre for 8 rows of books on Lincoln - containing his speeches, writings, letters and anecodotes that always stir you. It set me on a lifelong love-affair with an acutely honest President and a man of Mt.Everest character almost of biblical proportions. Folks in this part of the world will make Gandhi the apostle of truth and peace but universally Lincoln inspires all. I agree with Christian Science Monitor's article why President's Day should be celebrated on Abe's birthday and not Washington's birthday. Incidentally, America still publishes tomes and tomes on Lincoln everyday and professionals churn out books giving newer monikers to Lincoln that make him current and impossible man who dealt with so many crises in one lifetime.
Its surprising the President who kept the nation together doesn't have a holiday in his honour - not that he would have minded. What are the five things that I recommend for anybody who wants to know about Llincoln :
1. Lincoln the Unknown - by Dale Carnegie (the best biography secretly written by Dale Carnegie before writing any of the books he became famous for)
2. Lincoln's letter to the School Headmaster about teaching his son (makes you cry in joy and wisdom everytime you read it). I am tempted to reproduce this letter at the end of this post. Read it as intently as you would have read Rudyard Kipling's "If".
3. The Boyhood Days of Lincoln. (If you get it read it for what an inspired boyhood and youth Abe had - a heady mixture of hardwork, persistence and application).
4. Lincoln on Leadership by Donald T Philip. (A colleague of mine who heard of that has made it mandatory reading at GE - where he heads a big division).
5. Any book which captures the witty anecdotes and/or speeches of Lincoln. I think Lincoln has got it after Shakespeare right - the cadence and the beauty, the brevity and the wit. ("A House divided against itself cannot stand").
I always think the generation which grows up on reading about Lincoln anywhere in the world will have an unbeatable advantage over lot of things in life that a generation lost on him. Born this day in 1809, Lincoln is forever. And oh by the way, here is the much-treasured letter which has to be enshrined likewise:
Respected Teacher,
My son will have to learn I know that all men are not just, all men are not true. But teach him also that for ever scoundrel there is a hero; that for every selfish politician, there is a dedicated leader. Teach him that for every enemy there is a friend.
It will take time, I know; but teach him, if you can, that a dollar earned is far more valuable than five found.
Teach him to learn to lose and also to enjoy winning.
Steer him away from envy, if you can.
Teach him the secret of quite laughter. Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest to tick.
Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books.. but also give him quiet time to ponder over the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on a green hill –side.
In school teach him it is far more honourable to fail than to cheat.
Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if every one tells him they are wrong.
Teach him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with the tough.
Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when every one is getting on the bandwagon.
Teach him to listen to all men but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.
Teach him, if you can, how to laugh when he is sad. Teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness.
Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders; but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul.
Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob… and to stand and fight if he thinks he’s right.
Treat him gently; but do not cuddle him because only the test of fire makes fine steel.
Let him have the courage to be impatient, let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind.
This is a big order; but see what you can do. He is such a fine little fellow, my son.
